Interpersonal Communication concepts in the movie the notebook
The aim of this paper is to analyze a movie in the context of interpersonal communication skills. For that purpose the movie that is chosen is the notebook. The paper presents various arguments and discusses various aspects, scenes and behavior of the actors of the movie the notebook according to the concepts of interpersonal communication. The paper talks about how the movie displays various concepts of the interpersonal communication. The paper presents the details about various aspects of interpersonal communication such as non verbal communication, gestures, listening, writing, reading and perception. All these concepts of the interpersonal communication are discussed in the context of movie or how these concepts are portrayed in the movie.
Interpersonal Communication Concepts in the Movie “The Notebook”
Interpersonal communication is not just a method of sending and receiving messages, but also a method of transferring messages from one person to another. But it often happens that the meaning of the message that the sender intends to transfer is not the same that receivers perceives. In addition to that, communication is always complicated by infinite factors including perception, listening, attitude, values and beliefs, moods, etc. A good way to understand the process of communication is to consider everyone as television sets. Also, the number of broadcasting channels can be thought as different communication channels which are used by everyone to communicate with each other or it can also be thought of the personal styles everyone has. People select the channel which is most likely to suit them. Therefore, a person may choose a comedy channel, while another person may choose a serious drama or a musical channel, so on and so forth. When people meet one another, they respond to these personal styles in the same manner as they might respond to the TV programs. If the other person likes their style, then he or she will be expected to get on with them.
Communication is such a ubiquitous phenomenon that it can be observed everywhere. In theater, songs, movies and dramas the role of interpersonal communication is inevitable as the basic purpose of these forms of entertainment is to transfer message or idea of the producers. The aim of this paper is to analyze a movie for the various interpersonal communication aspects that it portrays.
The movie that is selected for the discussion of interpersonal communication aspects is “The notebook”. The Notebook belongs to the genre of romantic drama film written by Jeremy Leven and Jan Sardi directed by Nick Cassavetes, with the shares star Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams. Notebook directed by Cassavetes and it is based on the novel of the same subject, by Nicholas Sparks. The paper discusses the various aspects of the movie to discuss concepts of interpersonal communication.
To start the discussion about the portrayal of the interpersonal communication aspects in the movie the notebook the title of the movie itself is enough. The title of the movie represents one of the aspects of the interpersonal communication ...
Friends with Benefits is a movie about a New York based head-hunter, Jamie, attempting to sign Dylan, an individual based in Los Angeles, for her client. When Dylan accepts the job and makes the move, he rapidly becomes friends with Jamie. The friendship turns into a relationship with benefits. Nonetheless, Jamie has an emotionally dented past and Dylan has a past of not being emotionally available. This makes both Dylan and Jamie not to attempt to fall for one another. In addition, both Dylan and Jamie terminate their relationships with their loved ones, both of them promising to remain out of emotional engagements. When Jamie employs Dylan to manage the art department of GQ in New York City, and she is the only individual Dylan knows in this area, they make a decision of becoming friends with sexual gains.
The friends with benefits relationship between the two works properly until Jamie has an encounter with a pediatric cardiologist who might just be her match and Dylan asks her to accompany him to Los Angeles to celebrate thanksgiving. This illustrates a number of signals because Dylan may be perceived as being jealous of the doctor or Jamie may be sending new signals in the path of Dylan. (Bradshaw, 2011). This paper will analyze the movie, Friends with Benefits, and analyze five concepts learned in class in relation to the movie, providing clear descriptive examples from the movie of those concepts. The essay will discuss the concepts of self-disclosure, identity management, perception, emotions and interpersonal conflicts, and how they relate to the movie. Self-disclosure refers to both the subconscious and conscious act of providing extra information regarding oneself to other people. This may entail, but is not restricted to, dreams, thoughts, fears, feelings, successes, aspirations, failures, goals, favorites, dislikes, and likes. Characteristically, a self-disclosure takes place when an individual at the outset meets another person and continues as the individual develops and builds their relationship with another person. As people get to know others, they reveal information about their selves. In addition, if an individual is not eager to self-disclose, the other person may also not reveal information about themselves too. For example, in Friends with Benefits, on a night when they are at Jamie’s apartment watching a romantic film, both share information regarding the issue of relationships and sex. After self-disclosure, they both conclude that sex should not be accompanied with extreme emotional attachment (Bradshaw, 2011). Identity management is a continuous process which contains three associated phases. They include the trial stage, the enmeshment stage, and the renegotiation stage. The trial stage takes place at the start of a relationship when individuals are starting to explore their differences and willing to attain a balance for the sake of the relationship. For example, when Dylan is timid to move to New York, Jamie spends the evening taking Dylan around New York so as to expose him to the city and its opportunities. The enmeshment stage sees the emergence of similar features. For example, both Dylan and Jamie agree that sex should not have emotional attachments. Finally, the renegotiation stage sees individuals tackle identity concerns and using their past in attaining this. For example, Dylan’s father tells him to go after Jamie if there is an opportunity to save their relationship and not let a similar thing happen to him as it did to his father (Bradshaw, 2011). Perception is the method by which a person becomes conscious of events and objects in the external world. It may be affected by primacy-recency. A person’s tendency to give extra significance to what appears first may lead a person to see what corresponds to this judgment and to misperceive or distort any contradiction. For example, Jamie finds out that Dylan may be leaving his job for another one before the ...Show more